
don Felipe, of The Zapata Tales recently posted about being an immigrant here in Mexico, rather than an expatriate. I started working on a comment to his post and when it got quite lengthy decided it would make for better discussion as a separate post here.
In his post he states, "An expatriate is someone who is voluntarily absent from his home country. Well, that applies, and yours truly has considered himself an expat since moving south.
But an immigrant is someone who moves to another country in order to settle there. Sounds like an expat is keeping his options open. And an immigrant has made up his mind."
He also states "It seems that almost all Americans who have moved to Mexico think of themselves, as we did, as expats. You never hear the word immigrant."
I think part of this is the very negative connotation associated with the word 'immigrant' by those of us from the good ole USofA. Regardless that for the vast majority of us, we are from immigrant stock.
I've never really considered which label best fits for me. I just know that when I was contemplating, and eventually did, move to Mexico it was for nothing other than a desire for a more peaceful, tranquil, less expensive, less controlled by others, less scary, lifestyle.
I also wanted to be close, well closer than Colorado to salt water, and I wanted to not have to be afraid, or to have to pinch every penny, or possibly have to go without basic medical care if needed.
We've liquidated the assets in the USofA, with the exception of what monies we have in financial institutions there. We came down with a meager amount of what we once called possessions, 2 cats, and a car.
The car is still carrying Colorado plates, and probably will continue to do so till it goes to car heaven. The car is actually eligible to be nationalized this year, but we are told it could cost 1600USD to do so; Which makes no sense to do on a car whose current value is about 3500USD. Nationalizing the car would allow us to put Yucatan plates on, and require the maintenance of Mexican car insurance and property tax. HMMMMM, right now we can run on our expired Colorado tags till - well forever, and we pay no property tax.
I do plan to get a Mexican driver license, but am in no hurry since my Colorado license is still valid.
Is the thought of becoming a Mexican Citizen scary? No, but I'm not sure what the benefit is to either me or to Mexico. Many of our family and friends thought that because we were moving here to Mexico we had to give up our US citizenship. We didn't, even if we were to become Mexican citizens we would still maintain our US citizenship.
Am I an immigrant, an expatriate, a gringa, estadounidense, tourist, resident immigrant, ...
I don't know -
My name is Debi, I live in The Yucatan.
Am I adjusted - Yeah, I guess so, at least I'm working on it! I speak enough spanish to handle a great many situations, and am learning more with each endeavor. I exchange greetings with my neighbors and know better than to pass through the gate or door without an invitation. I know to walk on the shady side of the street, and under an umbrella. I think in terms of pesos and not how many dollars is that. I have adapted to local stuff and don't long for too many of the old things; well except steel cut oats, and I'd love to find some miso, ok maybe I do miss a few things. I buy from the local mercados and tiendas, yes, including meat products.
I think of this as home. Does that make me adjusted?



9 comments:
Actually I think that makes you a person who knows what she is doing and is perfectly satisfied with the life you chose. You're fine Debi, just finnnnnnne! :)
Happy Fourth.
Debi - I am with you on this. This is nothing more than a discussion of labels. I am part of where I live and you can call me what you like. I pay taxes, buy my food and clothing, gas and electric here in Mexico. I help my neighbors move a washing machine and they help me move a refrigerator. We sit down and watch futbol together, drink together, laugh together. I go to their birthday parties and they come to ours. NEVER once did they ask me if I was an immigrant or an expat nor have I asked to see their birth certificates, marriage licenses or drivers licenses. I am in the now - this is where I live today and that is as much as anyone needs to know. If we are lesser valued because we don't have some document or title - well I will get over it.
Oh and we own two houses here in the State of Veracruz.
Who am I?
Well put Debi!
I'm also trying more this year to adapt to Mexico and stop depending on things I used to think I had to have from the States. I miss miso too, and make a point of getting it if I have to go NOB. And unsweetened peanut butter. We double-insure one vehicle, MX and US, and keep current registration on it so we can drive in AZ without having our car impounded, but our goal is to only visit the States twice a year. We'll see if we make it.
I'm a sojourner.
Well put Debi. We are a part of where we live - that is why we chose to live here.
You can get the miso at Pacsadeli here in Merida. It WAS one of the things we missed too.
Pete
Hi you guys - Jeff in Oregon here -formerly of Palmer Lake and Denver, CO. WOW did you get closer to salt water - within less than 25mi. de Centro - es muy bueno no ? y no demasiado lejos de Cancun para licencias locas y divertidas.
Can I come live with ya'll for - oh I don't know a few years or so - I do dishes, windows AND know how to milk goats. I really don't eat much and don't have wife kids or pets. My Spanish still stinks but have been considering "total immersion" for a while now anyway.
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I'm almost half serious here, cuz after a couple trips to southern baja - I actually have given some serious consideration to doing something similar. I would never just impose on anyone like that - was brought up much better, but it sure would be fun to stay in touch and get to know you better. Besides - I JUST MIGHT be able to hook you up with some steel cut oats - unless that is-- they can't go into Mexico because of customs. Check out AzureStandard dot com - I live in Dufur and worked there as a truck driver for 11+ years. THEY CARRY THEM - - organic even !
You guys call yourselves whatever ya want - -just have fun and be well !!!!!! Jeff in Oregon
I was recently contacted by (yet another) website for ex-pats asking me to contribute. I politely declined, saying I am not an ex-pat, I just happen to live in Mexico and not the country of my birth. I don't "feel" like an ex-pat (at least not anymore), this is just my life. I think "ex-pat" conjures up images of "outsider", or someone who is not integrating into the society they've chosen to live in. Writing for an ex-pat website would be dreary, the "how to's" and the "what's different" are no longer new to me, this is just "normal" life now.
That said, it's all just labels as has been pointed out. I am an immigrant in Mexico, an emigrant from Canada, an ex-pat by some definitions, but mostly I'm just a mom and wife and teacher and writer.
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